In a candid interview with TV47, the bold and outspoken singer Akothee, also known as Esther Akoth, shared some intriguing insights into her love life and experiences as a parent, particularly in co-parenting her five children from three different fathers.
Akothee revealed a surprising approach she adopted to foster co-parenting among her baby daddies – she created a WhatsApp group for them to handle the overwhelming responsibilities together. However, managing the group hasn't been without its challenges. One of her baby daddies turned out to be dramatic and possessive, adding interesting twists to the dynamics of the co-parenting arrangement.
"When I am in a relationship, he starts drama. He does not want me with another man," Akothee shared, highlighting the struggles she faces within the co-parenting dynamics.
She expressed emotional distress, saying, "The same baby daddy makes me cry every day. My son is 14 years old, and I still think that I have 4 more years to cry. He is very stubborn and keeps on leaving the WhatsApp group. He blocks me, unblocks, then returns to the group. He is very stubborn."
The singer didn’t shy away from discussing her past relationships and marriages. She revealed that her first marriage, which took place when she was just 14 years old, had a budget of only Sh2500. However, her recent wedding with her current husband, Denis Schweizer, cost around Sh8 million.
Akothee also opened up about her struggles with an ex-husband who fell in love with another woman and denied her access to essential documents, leading her to work as a taxi driver in Mombasa to support herself.
Speaking about her love life further, Akothee revealed that was when she met the 'stubborn' mzungu (white man) who desired to have a child with her while she was working as a dancer.
The self-proclaimed "Madam Boss" asserted that she has never been dumped by any of her ex-lovers; she always ends the relationships. "Wazungus go crazy over my long legs and start chasing me. Just know I can't be dumped. I am the one who leaves them," she confidently stated.
While Akothee's recent marriage to Denis Schweizer seems to have brought her happiness, she warned her husband to avoid unnecessary drama should they ever part ways, as she feels she is too old to handle additional pressures.
As one of Kenya's most outspoken and controversial entertainers, Akothee continues to captivate the public with her life stories, music, and remarkable personality. Her openness about her experiences in co-parenting and love life provides a unique glimpse into the world of this influential artist.